I spent about a half a minute on the 'Headspace' website, a sample:
"Gender identity, like sexuality, is fluid, meaning it can change over time. This is completely normal. You don’t have to label your gender identity. However, if you choose to label your sexuality or gender it’s your choice; it’s what feels best for you; and when you’re ready - embrace and celebrate it!"
Just to let you know, I wish I could claim compensation for the damage being done to my family, from our medical system, QLD health, and all the ideological lobby groups infiltrating all the support bodies for VERY vulnerable young people. Plus the support bodies themselves.
I have vulnerable children with diagnoses that need support from professionals and therapists, and who would benefit from some of the services delivered by NGO bodies like Headspace.
But because my children are so vulnerable I can't allow them anywhere near a whiff of any therapist, GP or paediatrician, having already seen them go backwards in their health and happiness due to the trans ideology being brought into the room. Which has confused one of my children's already confused state in dealing with significant trauma at the time. My children strongly defend the ideology, despite naturally developing out of it in everything except strong alliance to it.
I'm lucky. I'm a professional within the system. So I have been able to stay one step ahead of the ideology. But I've lost my job doing it, and my children's development both exceptionally delayed despite being brought and capable (one has very high iq but socially vulnerable). This is because I've been unable to access good professional care for them from someone like Jillian Spencer, or therapists who weren't able to tell me they were free of the ideology. And I've spent YEARS looking and trying them out.
So I can categorically sit here and say, on the strength of your article, that my intuition was correct in avoiding referral for my kids to places like headspace.
And
That from what you're saying, Headspace is a definite groomer of EXTREMELY vulnerable kids with terribly complex histories, ripe for the picking.
If they are kids like mine- unable to discern subtle feelings of 'something is off here', or hungry for acceptance and kindness, or looking for answers to their emotional discomforts.... they will be groomed as soon as they walk in the door.
This is terrifying.
I also think... how are we ever going to stop the tide, when these kids are the biggest fighters for the cause, and they are being recruited in droves?
Whether or not they have sensible, loving adults in their lives, who they respect.
They will listen to the authority figures, particularly when they are low enough to have to engage in attending places like Headspace, or therapist appointments- GO appointments, even.
Whether or not they have differences/ disabilities/ traumatic histories... just being a child or youth in a world that soaks them in comparison, materialism and overwhelming environments (school, for eg), worsened just by being online (no matter for 'healthy or unhealthy' reasons. Info overload=overwhelm.)
The children's questions: ' I feel unsafe/ uncomfortable/I don't fit in... what's wrong with me...?' are no longer met by trusted family/ friends.
The online search gives an answer.
One of my children was terrified by the answer... an awful, awful life sentence- if true. But a good soul, also so conflicted by wanting to be supportive of others in this position. And eventually when it arose in a teary midnight expose to me, I said 'that's all normal... you're not supposed to be interested in sex at 11! It's normal not to be interested in the materialistic image related garbage the girls in your class are into! Find the couple of kids who are interested in reading and science like you are!'
But society took this worry and fed it, to the degree I was called transphobic, ignorant and a bigot when I attempted to soothe.
So I said we'd get the gp to explain she was just a normal teenager with normal teen problems.
And that was the beginning of a journey I never foresaw, at that time.
6 years later, the loss of my business, home, work and marriage, to address the real underlying issues (which were neurodiversities and giftedness our entire, successful highly trained professional family members shared. )
Not out of the woods yet, but only focused on the life- enhancing routes to gear the kids to safe (SAFE) independent lives, which has meant I could not utilise public health, the normal pathways with gps and therapists, even the ndis. I couldn't let go around them joining groups like the local ladybird (autistic girls) social group. Which WorldCom would've been life changing in different circumstances.
So
Thank you.
I see now my intuition to avoid Headspace was very real. I shudder.
And I'm left with my vague question- who can compensate me for 10 years of my life (at least) lost and hundreds and thousands of dollars gone in income and on 'medical et al' expenses. Not to mention the rest.
And I would LOVE to support Jillian actively, as I have some of the skills and experience to be able to stand up with her. And you all. But I can't.
I can't risk losing what I've fought for, without their knowing, all these years, which is seeing my children go ahead and lead productive, happy and society- supporting lives.
But Difficult because there are likely so many like myself, who will fight under the radar, only to see our kids escape the danger, for the win of being able to breathe in releif and return to our anonymous, successful lives with our heads down, exhausted.
If someone could harness all the anonymous parents like me, with so many useful skills, years of in depth understanding, and vehemence to see the ideology collapse, then we'd be an extremely powerful lobby.
But anonymity until the kids see otherwise, means small numbers of lives saved in the meantime.
I often think- what would it take to 'attack the enemy' right at the root?
I keep coming up with- stop recruitment.
But....
In the meantime, I will keep praising your work and your courage.
The recent falls, also seen in NZ, are very telling. With greater awareness via the Cass review and insurer nervousness it seems GPs are finally starting to pay attention. God willing this trend continues and that we have finally left the Wild West phase of medical negligence.
I spent about a half a minute on the 'Headspace' website, a sample:
"Gender identity, like sexuality, is fluid, meaning it can change over time. This is completely normal. You don’t have to label your gender identity. However, if you choose to label your sexuality or gender it’s your choice; it’s what feels best for you; and when you’re ready - embrace and celebrate it!"
CREEPY NONSENSE!
Like micro-plastics, it’s everywhere.
Just to let you know, I wish I could claim compensation for the damage being done to my family, from our medical system, QLD health, and all the ideological lobby groups infiltrating all the support bodies for VERY vulnerable young people. Plus the support bodies themselves.
I have vulnerable children with diagnoses that need support from professionals and therapists, and who would benefit from some of the services delivered by NGO bodies like Headspace.
But because my children are so vulnerable I can't allow them anywhere near a whiff of any therapist, GP or paediatrician, having already seen them go backwards in their health and happiness due to the trans ideology being brought into the room. Which has confused one of my children's already confused state in dealing with significant trauma at the time. My children strongly defend the ideology, despite naturally developing out of it in everything except strong alliance to it.
I'm lucky. I'm a professional within the system. So I have been able to stay one step ahead of the ideology. But I've lost my job doing it, and my children's development both exceptionally delayed despite being brought and capable (one has very high iq but socially vulnerable). This is because I've been unable to access good professional care for them from someone like Jillian Spencer, or therapists who weren't able to tell me they were free of the ideology. And I've spent YEARS looking and trying them out.
So I can categorically sit here and say, on the strength of your article, that my intuition was correct in avoiding referral for my kids to places like headspace.
And
That from what you're saying, Headspace is a definite groomer of EXTREMELY vulnerable kids with terribly complex histories, ripe for the picking.
If they are kids like mine- unable to discern subtle feelings of 'something is off here', or hungry for acceptance and kindness, or looking for answers to their emotional discomforts.... they will be groomed as soon as they walk in the door.
This is terrifying.
I also think... how are we ever going to stop the tide, when these kids are the biggest fighters for the cause, and they are being recruited in droves?
Whether or not they have sensible, loving adults in their lives, who they respect.
They will listen to the authority figures, particularly when they are low enough to have to engage in attending places like Headspace, or therapist appointments- GO appointments, even.
Whether or not they have differences/ disabilities/ traumatic histories... just being a child or youth in a world that soaks them in comparison, materialism and overwhelming environments (school, for eg), worsened just by being online (no matter for 'healthy or unhealthy' reasons. Info overload=overwhelm.)
The children's questions: ' I feel unsafe/ uncomfortable/I don't fit in... what's wrong with me...?' are no longer met by trusted family/ friends.
The online search gives an answer.
One of my children was terrified by the answer... an awful, awful life sentence- if true. But a good soul, also so conflicted by wanting to be supportive of others in this position. And eventually when it arose in a teary midnight expose to me, I said 'that's all normal... you're not supposed to be interested in sex at 11! It's normal not to be interested in the materialistic image related garbage the girls in your class are into! Find the couple of kids who are interested in reading and science like you are!'
But society took this worry and fed it, to the degree I was called transphobic, ignorant and a bigot when I attempted to soothe.
So I said we'd get the gp to explain she was just a normal teenager with normal teen problems.
And that was the beginning of a journey I never foresaw, at that time.
6 years later, the loss of my business, home, work and marriage, to address the real underlying issues (which were neurodiversities and giftedness our entire, successful highly trained professional family members shared. )
Not out of the woods yet, but only focused on the life- enhancing routes to gear the kids to safe (SAFE) independent lives, which has meant I could not utilise public health, the normal pathways with gps and therapists, even the ndis. I couldn't let go around them joining groups like the local ladybird (autistic girls) social group. Which WorldCom would've been life changing in different circumstances.
So
Thank you.
I see now my intuition to avoid Headspace was very real. I shudder.
And I'm left with my vague question- who can compensate me for 10 years of my life (at least) lost and hundreds and thousands of dollars gone in income and on 'medical et al' expenses. Not to mention the rest.
And I would LOVE to support Jillian actively, as I have some of the skills and experience to be able to stand up with her. And you all. But I can't.
I can't risk losing what I've fought for, without their knowing, all these years, which is seeing my children go ahead and lead productive, happy and society- supporting lives.
Always
Thank you
It’s very difficult. Those Orygen/Headspace centres in Victoria do appear to be captured. I’d be interested hearing about Headspace in other states.
Difficult, and..Difficult.
I'm fine, occasionally angry at the system.
But Difficult because there are likely so many like myself, who will fight under the radar, only to see our kids escape the danger, for the win of being able to breathe in releif and return to our anonymous, successful lives with our heads down, exhausted.
If someone could harness all the anonymous parents like me, with so many useful skills, years of in depth understanding, and vehemence to see the ideology collapse, then we'd be an extremely powerful lobby.
But anonymity until the kids see otherwise, means small numbers of lives saved in the meantime.
I often think- what would it take to 'attack the enemy' right at the root?
I keep coming up with- stop recruitment.
But....
In the meantime, I will keep praising your work and your courage.
Thank you again. And I mean it.
The recent falls, also seen in NZ, are very telling. With greater awareness via the Cass review and insurer nervousness it seems GPs are finally starting to pay attention. God willing this trend continues and that we have finally left the Wild West phase of medical negligence.