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Excellent. Just excellent.

I think there's another factor at play... the drift of western society to 'rescue' or avoid discomfort. Emotional and physical discomfort.

Advertising media exacerbates, perpetuates and maybe even initiated this.

I want to say something about 'social media'.

I can say from my parental experience with trans ideology we are all missing a big point.

In our family it was pure and simple- internet access only where the problem entered our home.

It started about 6 to 12 months, after 'bring your own device' was introduced in late primary school.

Was not an issue with school- owned devices, introduced earlier, in grade 4or 5, at the Qld school my kids went to. I guess because the kids weren't free to fiddle with them and 'make them their own.'

(Like school text books vs the self-owned school books that my kids decorated with stickers etc. )

I can say this also because I'm a technophobe, grew up without tv or much electronic entertainment in an Asian country. And we didn't use computers at home at all. And entertainment was limited to ABC for kids, ABC, and SBS in our home. No streaming platforms, very limited commercial tv- only free to air. We had DVDs from rental stores or went to the movies.

I can also say this because my 'TA-deologically affected' child is black and white, and rejected social media from a very young age when school gave talks on the subject of dangers of fb. Then a few other social media apps were given air by school speeches earning of dangers. And on seeing something about dangers of tiktok being discussed, my child was disgusted with anyone using it.

So my child doesn't use 'social media' as meant by the terms in our broad world discussions. Asked me very early to 'never use my photos or name on fb!', dislikes instagram with a vengeance, and has lost friends by refusing to communicate on snapchat or any other platform other than text.

Except

Discord.

With vehemence I'm told it isn't social media. I argue otherwise, but really, I'm in a minority. Noone calls this social media.

And this crowd of kids lifts material out of tumblr, my child accesses it via Discord chats.

But again, tumblr was never mentioned in the school warnings, and my child vehmently defends it as not being a danger, because it apparently doesn't use algorithms etc.

I don't know about that.

But

This captured group of kids, those with neurodiversities, are maybe like my kid- not on social media, but using Discord and other artsy/ intellectual/ gaming platforms. And heavy users of tumblr, with its angst, edge and non mainstream air.

And for our family, I'd say it was just the introduction of internet access that has been the facilitating factor.

With access to all things marketing.

For me, the internet/ streaming etc, is just marketing and advertising.

A focus on 'what's WRONG'... so here's how it can be fixed.

I see the problem as an overall move toward avoidance of discomfort, and a heavy bent on finding solutions of ease to our problems (numerous, sometimes manufactured, scapegoats to normal life).

Which become vehicles for marketing.

In the process, we are wiring young brains to focus and move in this way: focus heavily on problems in order to sell solutions.

Hence we are trained...we must find releif from our many unending stream of problems (pointed out to us in case we miss them), by buying solutions. Fixes. Quick fixes.

Disomfort- can be avoided- fix discomfort completely with this easily purchased solution.

The emotional discomfort of being a teen is ripe for marketers.

Reading trans ideology online or seeing it in the news, now massively sold on mainstream government media, makes social media only one of the environments where the ideology thrives.

I think no wonder children are suffering anxiety to a degree we've never seen before. I blame never ending marketing, where the problems are sold heavily to teens. And the internet, given to kids at school, is non stop marketing.

I hasten to say that schools do not adequately police device use, where home (depending on the families) might have a chance, if home were the only place devices were used.

We tried.

I can't say that as parents, our trying to keep a lid on information tech and marketing as influences on our children, hasn't been a factor in causing stress with our kids, or been a factor in the ideology appearing in one of them. Some may say we've been behind the times.

But as a family with negligible media use, almost no social media use, (not driven by me) and definitely no 'social media' use in the sense we use the terminology, the trouble started happening with device use at school.

I think largely the point is being missed and is larger than blaming just social media.

I think our governments banning social media to a suitable age is helpful, but if other communication platforms, and all the underground, non mainstream media like tumblr/Discord isn't included, not to mention any marketing arising from any internet use or excessive access to constant information good or bad..... it's all moot.

Access to information technology for children is in my mind the real culprit.

But hooo...! Imagine getting real about THAT!!

Thank you, as always, Bernard. And Sandra- I see you are the author here.

As I have said before, you are of few voices I'm able to say have likely saved at least one life.

Cheers

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Vincent Keane's avatar

THE BEST STUDIES SHOW THE WORST OUTCOMES

I refer to a Public Discourse from February 2020 by Paul Dirks, titled:

“Transition as Treatment: The Best Studies Show the Worst Outcomes”

I have attempted to summarise and would strongly encourage those interested to read it in full. It is readily available on the internet:

A pattern begins to emerge as we survey some of the best and longest outcome studies on gender transition: The longer the studies and the better the methods, the more negative the results.

Two of the largest issues are study length (time since treatment) and the ‘lost to follow-up -rates’.

It is well recognized in the literature that the year after medical transition is a “honeymoon period,” which “does not represent a realistic picture of long-term sexual and psychological status.”

Complicating study lengths is the issue of follow-up.

Many researchers state that, once 20 percent of a study’s participants are lost to follow-up, there are significantly detrimental effects to the study’s reliability

The 2011 Swedish study titled, ‘Long-Term Follow-Up of Transsexual Persons Undergoing Sex Reassignment Surgery’: Concluded that Persons with transsexualism, after sex reassignment, have considerably higher risks for mortality, suicidal behaviour, and psychiatric morbidity than the general population.

In fact, out of the six long-term outcome studies (over more than ten years) that have useful data on mental or psychological functioning, no less than five report mixed or poor outcomes.

Given that treatment of gender dysphoria currently includes such drastic measures as the removal of healthy, functioning body parts, the protracted and experimental use of cross-sex hormones, and the permanent circumvention of the normal pubertal process, this is nothing short of scandalous.

In the interest of providing a degree of balance to those who promote and practice the ‘Affirmative Moder of Gender Care’ I post a powerful statement made in May 2021 by ABC reporter Ms Janine Cohen:

“Dr Michelle Telfer saving the lives of hundreds, even thousands of children – without ever picking up a scalpel or treating a disease”.

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